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Terms of Use
These terms explain the product boundary, subscription rules, and responsibilities for using After the Argument.
Last updated: July 31, 2026
Apple's standard EULA applies
The app is licensed through the Apple App Store. Apple's Standard Licensed Application End User License Agreement applies and is incorporated into these terms. If these terms conflict with Apple's required terms, Apple's terms control for the App Store license.
1. Agreement
By downloading, accessing, purchasing, or using After the Argument or this website, you agree to these terms and the Privacy Policy. If you do not agree, do not use the app or site.
2. What the app is
After the Argument is an educational self-help tool for willing couples and individuals dealing with ordinary disagreements. It offers a structured cool-down, reflection, repair, planning, and progress-tracking workflow.
The app does not decide who is right, monitor a partner, guarantee reconciliation, diagnose a condition, provide professional therapy, or replace qualified medical, mental-health, legal, emergency, or domestic-violence services.
3. Safety boundary
Do not use a joint ritual when there is fear, coercion, stalking, threats, control, or physical violence. Using one phone together may be unsafe in those situations. Move toward safety and contact local emergency services, a trusted person, or specialist support.
You are responsible for deciding whether participation is free and safe. The app's safety question is a boundary, not an assessment or guarantee.
4. Eligibility and personal use
You must be at least 13 and legally able to agree to these terms. The app is licensed for personal, non-commercial use under Apple's EULA. Do not use it to pressure, surveil, expose, shame, threaten, or manipulate another person.
5. Subscriptions and trials
- Purchases are processed by Apple and managed through your Apple Account.
- After the Argument Plus is offered as a monthly or yearly auto-renewing subscription.
- An introductory trial may be available to eligible new yearly subscribers. Apple determines eligibility.
- Apple displays the final localized price, tax, trial, and renewal terms before confirmation.
- Payment is charged to your Apple Account. A subscription renews automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.
- Manage or cancel through Apple Account subscription settings. Deleting the app does not cancel a subscription.
- Use Restore Purchases inside the app to recover eligible access on the same Apple Account.
Refund requests are handled under Apple's policies and processes.
6. Your data and device
Repair content is stored locally. You are responsible for access to your device, device backups, and any information you intentionally share. Deleting app data or the app can permanently remove local repair history. The app does not promise cloud recovery or cross-device sync in version 1.
7. Research and educational content
The app summarizes selected relationship and emotion-regulation research for practical use. Research findings have limits and do not predict an individual outcome. Source links are provided where practical. Do not treat app content as a personalized clinical recommendation.
8. Acceptable use
Do not misuse the app or site, interfere with security, attempt unauthorized access, reverse engineer except where law permits it, violate another person's privacy or intellectual-property rights, or use the product in violation of applicable law.
9. Ownership
Tepesoft and its licensors retain rights in the app, site, design, text, code, brand, and original content. You retain responsibility for information you enter. Your App Store license does not transfer ownership of the software.
10. Availability and changes
We may improve, replace, limit, suspend, or discontinue features. We may update pricing, subscription benefits, these terms, or the Privacy Policy. Previously purchased access remains subject to Apple rules and the terms shown at purchase.
11. Disclaimers
To the fullest extent allowed by law, the app and site are provided "as is" and "as available." Tepesoft does not guarantee that a ritual will resolve a disagreement, reduce conflict, restore closeness, or be suitable for every relationship or situation.
Nothing in these terms excludes rights or warranties that cannot legally be excluded.
12. Limitation of liability
To the fullest extent allowed by law, Tepesoft is not liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive loss arising from use of the app or site. Mandatory consumer rights and Apple's EULA remain unaffected.
13. Contact
Questions about these terms or the app can be sent to Tepesoft.